***tiya banna aur banana

Believe me or not.
'Banane' me vo majaa bilkul nahi hai jo majaa 'bnne' me hai.
'bnne' ka majaa kuch aur hi hai.
'banana' risky hai, kuch krna pdta hai.
'bnna' safe hai aur aapko kuch bhi nahi krna pdta blki 'banane' vaala khud aapke 'bnnne' ke liye saari taiyaariyaan krta hai.

I agree ki 'banana' ek ucch- stariya kala hai aur samne vaale ko safalta poorvak 'bana' pana badi mehnat kaam hai.
lekin safalta-poorvak 'bana' paane vaale ye log virley hein, aur muskil se milte hei.

AApke aas-paas jitne bhi hein adhiktar nau-sikhiye hein aur saath hi galatfehmi me bhi hein ki ve saamne vaale ka 'bana' skte hein.
Unki yehi galatfehmi aapke maje ki neev rkhti hai.

Ye nau-sikhye 'banane' vaale jab bhi aapko 'banane' ki koshish krte hein, afsoos ki pkde jaate hai.
aur yahi se ye ultimate majoun vaala safar shuru hota hai.
Unke pkde jaane ke baad aapke paas do raste hote hai
-"ya to aap 'bnnne' se inkaar kar de"
-"ya to aap 'bnte' jaayein".
And belive me ki second vaala option jyada behtar hai.
vo isliye khush hoga ki vo aapko 'bana' paaya, aur aap isliye ki aap 'ban' gaye.
aap 'bnna' svikaar karein aur 'banane' vaale ko aapko 'banane' dene me poori madad karein
'Banane' vaale ko dhyaan se sune aur samjhne ki koshish kre ki vo aapse chahta kya hai.
agar vo chahta hai ki aap uski baat sun ke 'chounkein', to aap 'chounk' jaayein.
agar vo chahta hai ki aap uski 'taarif' kare, to aap 'taarif' kar de.
usse malum naa hone de ki vo 'nau-sikhiya banane' vaala hai aur aapko 'banane' me naa-kaamyaab raha hai
blki uske saath behte jaayein, apne aap 'bnte' jaayein.
agar aap usse yakin dila paaye ki usne aapko 'bana' diya hai
to samjho ki aapki lottery lag gayi kyunki ab vo baar baar aapko 'banane' aapke paas aane vaala hai.

'banate' samay uske dwara ki jaa rahi atirkt koshishon ko dekhein.
uski mehnat ko dekhein, uske chehre ko dekhein.
Uske chehre me se chup-chap jhaankti, aapko safalta poorvak 'bana' dene vaali khushi ko dhonndhe.
agar dhoondh paaye to sahi me tumhe bahut majaa aane vaala hai.
itna majaa ki tum agle do din tak mnd-mnd muskuraa sako.
End.

Question nahi poora database hai boss, show ur management skills

A is father of two children B and D, who are of different sexes.
C is B's spouse.
E is of the same sex as D.
B and C have two children : F, who is of same sex as B, and G, who is of same sex as C.
E's mother H, who is married to L, is the sister of D's mother, M .
E and E's spouse I, have two children J and K, who are of same sex as I .
No person has married more than once and no children have been born out of wedlock .
The only restriction on marriage are that marriage to a sibling, to a direct descendant, or to more than one person at the same time are forbidden .

Q1-According to the rules, D can marry
options- (a) F only    (b) G only     (c) J only       (d) F, J or K

Q2-If the generation of F and K's parents and their siblings contains more females than males,  then which of the following must be true-
options-  (a) K and G are of the same sex    (b) A is of the same sex as D  (c) J is a male  (d) There are more females than males in F and K's generation

Q3-   F is-
options- (a) G's sister      (b) D's niece or nephew               (c) G's brother               (d) B's daughter

Q4- If L and H divorced , then H could marry
               (I) D only   (II)F   (III) D or G
  options- (a) I only      (b) II only     (c) III only      (d) II or III, but not both

Have a whale of time frens............

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ये भीगे खून से कपडे , ये भीगी आँख का पानी

इसी माहौल से गुजरा जमाना और क्या होगा? .

ये मंदिर और ऊँचा कर ये मस्जिद और फैला दो 

न टूटी गर जो दीवारें बहाना और क्या होगा ? 

तन पे कपडे थोड़े हों निगाहें घूरती हैं 

जो तन पूरा ढका हो निगाहें चीरती हैं

निगाहें साथ चलती हैं हजारों में जहाँ जाऊ

मै तुमसे पूछ्ती मर्दों दिखाना और क्या होगा ?

ये भीगे ............. 
 1haldua + 1vikas

usne

बड़ी साफगोई से पुकारा उसने 

लगा की कान्हा पुकारा उसने

सूर्य भी बस एक टक तकता रहा 

जब कभी रेशमी जुल्फों  को संवारा उसने

चौदह दिन लगे बस चाँद को पिघलने में

जिस दिन से मेरे चाँद को निहारा उसने 

रस्मन जो मुझे  देख के मुस्काई वो 

लगा की फिर कोई किया है इशारा उसने

और यूँ ही नहीं है मेरी चाल का मतवालापन   

किसी से जिक्र किया है हमारा उसने

Armaan

दूर बैठ कर वीरानों में 

तन्हाईयों से तंग-सा हो

मत खींच नक्शे बेतरतीब 

मेरी कठोर-सी दिखने वाली शक्ल के 

दिमागी कसरत कर 

मेरे प्रतिबिंब के होंठों को चला 

मेरे मुंह से तुगलकी फरमान मत सुन 

मेरे पास आ कर बैठ फुर्सत से  कभी

और इस पत्थर को पिघलते हुए गौर से देख 

यह पत्थर कब से दिल में कुछ अरमान लिए बैठा है

दो कान ढूंढता है दास्तान लिए बैठा है

  

 

kashmakash

कहता है मेरी शर्म -ओ-हया का कायल है ,

फिर क्यूँ बेशरम होने की बात करता है .

वादा करता है मुझसे हाथ मेरा थामेगा,

फिर क्यूँ मेरे कंधे पे हाथ रखता है .

मेरी सादगी भी है पसंद उसको,

फिर  क्यूँ  मुझसे  उलझी सी बात करता है .

ढलते सूरज की कशिश है जिसमे दिलचस्पी है ,

 देरियां  कर क्यूँ रोजाना वो रात करता है.

प्यार वो है जो की  अब तक वो मुझसे करता है ,

या प्यार वो है जो वो करने की बात करता है .

 

For all those who know meerut a little

When i sat on table to write my first blog, quite obvious it was to get confused.
I was pondering a lot what my first blog topic should be.
A lot of themes were there in my mind. i had lot with me to say on human believes, relationships and other social issues.
But i didn't want my first readers to feel any pressure on their head as they go ahead with my words.So I started with a lightier one.
An happy incident from my life.

It happened around 5 months ago when my seventh semester was just started.
I live in KANKERKHERA, a notorious place of meerut. There is a place called SARDHANA CHOURAHA nearby my home.
And I daily pick 3-wheeler from SARDHANA CHOURAHA to  my college MIET.
At that very day, I was sitting within 3-wheeler waiting patiently of its run.
Seven were already there and Driver was looking for eighth one.
My back was touching the drivers back.
A college boy,the hero of my blog, was sitting beside me.And he was accompanied by his friend, sitting face to face.
Both boys were talking aloud and laughing continuously.And I ,by my nature, simply looking out of window ,and
thinking "Was that absurd really deserve that laugh?"
Hero was a handsome boy.I had never seen him before on that route.
I later came to know that he was new to route and meerut also.
And He took admission in the same college.

Driver's wait ended.A girl, with atleast 3 books in her hand came to 3-wheeler and tried to step into the 3-wheeler.
The girl is beautiful and often  remains silent and I generally see her on route.She is pursuing her B.tech from the same college.
As the girl had books in her hands, she felt some difficulty in stepping-in.
The Boy helped her by taking her books,showing his helpful nature and confidence simultaneously.

As the girl was trying to adjust, boy was turning pages of her book. It was abc of physics,12th standard.
The boy read her name, her college name and I too.
As She sat properly, Boy gave her books back and said aloud in a questioning manner
      " R G Inter college? One boy of my class has also done his intermediate from that college."

The girl din reply and started gazing out of window.
But this time I couldn't have helped me laughing.